There is the question of being able to love and kill. Almost at the same time. How do you learn to love? Are you forced to love your child when the milk flows? The heart is on tap. You turn it on, you turn it off. Is this possible? If I love my baby, how can I not love all babies? Is love a favour to be meted out? What is the nature and quality of a man's love for a woman when he goes out to kill another human being the next day?